Holly Riordan of All Women Stalk explains a few things every woman should know about her $exuality:
You don’t need to know what you are: Don’t stress yourself out over trying to figure out if you’re a lesbian, bi$exual, or if you fit into any other $exual category. It doesn’t actually matter if you know what to call yourself. You’re going to develop crushes on certain people and be disgusted by other people. Stop trying to put yourself into a specific category, and just learn to be comfortable liking whomever you end up liking.
Bi$exuality is more common than you think: If you’ve ever had a “girl #crush,” you’re in the majority. According to yourtango.com, at least 60% of women admit to being attracted to other women. After all, it’s difficult not to find goddesses like Beyonce and Ruby Rose attractive.
There are more $exualities than you realise: Most people a$$ume that there are three #different types of $exualities: hetero$exuals, homo$exuals, and bi$exuals. However, there are a lot more than that! LGBTQAA has a lot of letters, after all. There are also pan$exuals, a$exuals, andro$exuals, skolio$exuals, and transgendered #men and women.
It’s okay to experiment: If you want to kiss another girl, even though you think you’re straight, go ahead. Just make sure that she knows that you’re not interested in a serious #relationship, because you don’t want to hurt her. There’s nothing wrong with seeing all the #world has to offer. If you want to kiss a guy, kiss a #guy. If you want to follow Katy Perry’s lead and kiss a girl, then kiss a #girl, too.
You can know your $exuality without having $ex: Some #people will claim that you can’t know what your $exuality is until you kiss someone. Even though it’s healthy to experiment, that myth certainly isn’t true. You can still be attracted to a certain gender, even though you’ve never locked lips with them. You don’t have to take action on your feelings in order for them to be valid.
You can tell whomever you wish: You should never be ashamed of your $exuality. However, that doesn’t mean that you need to “come out of the closet” with your $exuality. If you figure out that you’re bi$exual or pan$exual, then you don’t have to make an announcement to all of your friends and family. Your $exuality is none of their business, so if you want to keep your private life private, do so. Of course, you shouldn’t be shy to speak up if you want the whole #world to know whom you’re interested in. Do whatever you’re comfortable doing.
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